Batu69 Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 A tough boss makes for a nightmare Microsoft Developer Robert Parks thought he had obtained his dream job when he was contacted by Microsoft to work at the company's headquarters in Redmond, but it all proved to be a fiasco because of a terrible boss, as he explains. Parks' experience at Microsoft lasted for only four months during which he struggled to find his place within the company and get along with his boss, who picked on him repeatedly for no clear reason. First of all, he explains in a lengthy blog post detailing his own experience at Microsoft that, when joining the software giant, he was included in the so-called New Employee Orientation or NEO, which is supposed to help new workers get around the company and discover the essentials. For him, these essentials basically came down to meeting a few of what he calls “cheesy ice-breakers,” participating in some presentations about health insurance, watching a prerecorded message from Satya Nadella, and receiving general information about transportation. “The day was ending. I still had no idea what was going on. I had been given the name of my manager and his office number, but he mysteriously didn’t show up on //who (a page on Microsoft’s intranet with bios of all Microsoft employees). I wasn’t even sure how to get home,” he writes. The next day, when he finally found his manager's office, he was told that his boss was out of office until next Wednesday, so he “spent the first few days setting up my computer, taking care of some HR related tasks, and picking my co-workers brains about what I could do to be productive until our manager could assign me a real task.” A nightmare boss And this is where the bad part starts. Parks says that his manager returned from vacation the following week, so he was very excited to meet him and finally have something to do that could help the team. But the first meeting with his boss took place after only two weeks. “The first item on the meeting’s agenda was apparently to browbeat me for not communicating with him enough. It was a sentiment I couldn’t believe he could hold unironically considering the context, but somehow he did. The next item on the agenda was to browbeat me for not communicating enough with my teammates,” Parks writes. He never had the chance to defend himself. Whenever he was trying to say something, the manager interrupted him and changed the subject.Minutes after the first meeting, when Parks was replaying “the meeting over in my head, trying to make sense of it,” he received a message that his boss wanted to see him again in his office. “He sat me down and asked, ‘do you feel like this team isn’t a good fit for you?’ I was really at a loss of words at that point. I had no idea what motivated him to ask that question. I didn’t see how saying ‘yes’ would benefit me in any way, so in my state of confusion I mumbled something about how I think the project sounds really interesting.” The resignation Everything went from bad to worse, and in the next few weeks, his boss criticized him on every single occasion, even though there was no clear reason for him to do that. He was picking on him, but he seemed to be okay with all the other members of the team. “At some point we got another new hire on our team. Before he showed up our manager told us all about him and seemed genuinely excited. When he showed up on his first day our manager immediately held a meeting with him, after which he toured him around the office and introduced him to the whole team. That’s when I realized something was really off.” “I told a couple of my coworkers in private about the way our manager had been treating me and asked they shared similar experiences. They were so surprised that I’m not even sure they believed me.” So after four months spent at Microsoft, he finally decided to resign because of his boss. It took no less than two days for the manager to send an email to the HR in order to make the paperwork, and during this whole time, nobody even noticed that he was missing. Before anything, it's important to note that this is just one side of the story and there's no doubt that working for such a huge company can have its ups and downs. In the end, it's pretty clear that Satya Nadella's dream of having One Microsoft that works as a whole needs more time to happen, especially behind closed doors. Source Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Ballistic Gelatin Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 Everyone is going to report to a bad boss at some point in his/her career. Whining about it is usually fruitless; complaining about a former supervisor online is a bad idea because future bosses will be looking for that when a new prospect applies for a job.It just shows you that, despite the wonderful accolades accorded to "great" workplaces, the truth is that the working conditions at any of them will never be perfect. Learn from your bad experiences, move forward and keep your expectations realistic. And if you detest the idea of working FOR someone, go to work for yourself (as I did). Then you'll find out what kind of boss YOU are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dMog Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 Everyone is going to report to a bad boss at some point in his/her career. Whining about it is usually fruitless; complaining about a former supervisor online is a bad idea because future bosses will be looking for that when a new prospect applies for a job.It just shows you that, despite the wonderful accolades accorded to "great" workplaces, the truth is that the working conditions at any of them will never be perfect. Learn from your bad experiences, move forward and keep your expectations realistic. And if you detest the idea of working FOR someone, go to work for yourself (as I did). Then you'll find out what kind of boss YOU are.i work in place that has allowed me to have several bosses... some were good some were not so good... i respected every one of them except one... out od 13 direct managers i have worked for only one was total wash up...and eventually got himself fired... in that same amount of time the hundreds of co-workers i have worked with over the years ...there more than 20 of them that if i was the man in charge, i would have fired their sorry lazy incompetent asses... common thread among the lazy incompetent workers...every single one of them has never had a boss they respected or wanted to work for.... and yes it helps when you got a great boss that respects you but it is up to you yourself to make sure that happens...nor just show up do nothing and expect it...and this applies for both bosses and underlings Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
masterupc Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 For years I'm my own boss... and I hate my boss... lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dMog Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 For years I'm my own boss... and I hate my boss... lolyou got it all wrong..your boss is great :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
212eta Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 For years I'm my own boss... and I hate my boss... lolMultiple Personality disorder? :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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