Condolences For SlimRock

[quish]

Please accept my sincere condolences

[clubhouse]

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.

[rudrax]

Whoever comes - need to go. Easy to say but to realize the fact when it falls on you, is something you can be never ready to accept. The only thing that helps is the healing power of time. And one can't do more except for just to move on.

May her soul Rest In Peace.

[SlimRock]

@all I am grateful to you all for your moral support in this devastating time!

I lost both my parents to cancer. In August 2012 my dad was diagnosed with Liver Cancer & he passed away after mere 10 days (post diagnosis). It was very hard to watch him wither away from such a horrible disease & Now after short space of 18 months, mom died of Breast Cancer (metastasis) though she was diagnosed in November 2011. I along with my siblings watched her health decline so quickly. It is so hard to go every day missing them and wishing they were still alive. :(

Everyone says "Time Heals all wounds" but not this one, more importantly not yet. The more time that passes, the more it hurts. IMHO time doesn't heal anything, it just tells us how to live and move along with the pain. We can grieve for a few weeks and then seemingly just forget about all those days/months/ years of their lives that we have spent together with that other person.

It's not easy to cope with when you lose your parents at a tender age & being the eldest amongst your siblings burdens you up with responsibilities which gives a new meaning to your life to look forward.
No matter how long our parents live, we may feel that we wanted more time with them and that it was just too soon for them to die! :(

[Myna]

Take care of yourself buddy. Its time you step up. I know you can do it. The void will always be there but look around...... and see what you have. The people that had to go are gone, you can't do anything about it. But one thing you can do is, hold on to what you have. Be a good brother. And it’s not only about your siblings...... make the best of your life.

The best advice I'd can give you right now is..... keep yourself busy. Do something that you love. It'll help you a lot.

Love you.

[rudrax]

Yeah, myna is right. The best way to avoid your wounds, is to keep youself busy. Don't be alone.

I know, we are just saying things and giving advices but that's the best we can do buddy. Reality is only known to him who is facing it. Life can't give you any mightier blow than this and look at yourself - you are still not broken. So, there's nothing that will be able to break you anymore.

If you believe God is there, then it is said that he tests his favorite dociples to some certain limit to see how much they can bear. But don't know why he gives much pain to the one he loves more. Perhaps, there is some supernatural reason behind that which is not yet know to us.

Get yourself busy with your responsibilities and try your best to keep them. You won't find a reason for now to live for yourself but that's not the only thing. You are someone's hope, live for them and you have to. Let your parents be pround in heaven. Write your destiny and be a good guy.

[speedy57]